Banning China maids

I came across this article in Star newspaper recently about the banning of China maids by majority of the housewives in Malaysia.The reason for this is the fear of their husband straying away which will wreck their families.

It is intresting to see many housewives wrote to the newspaper ,critising China women and protesting against the government's plan in bringing China maids to Malaysia.But,not much are being said about the unfaithful men.Most of the responsiblity are put on the women, as if their husbands are being forced. What is wrong with our society today?Why do they put the blame on the women while it is clear that men need to be held responsible for their shameful action?

Instead of blaming other women for destroying their families and thinking of ways to avoid any women get close to their husband-why dont they do something more practical to safe their families?When a man wants to fool around,he is willing to spend thousand of dollars and travel to the other parts of the world to get mistresses .Thus,it is illogical to stop China women from coming in Malaysia to earn for their living .We should be sympathetic over the challenging condition of these women in China due to the high population there.Instead of helping,we shattered their dreams of working here due to the insecurity of many housewives and men's lust.

All the claims made by the housewives tarnish the reputation of many responsible and loyal men-Also , it shows the insecurity and selfishness of the housewives which do not think about others but themselves.

It is undenieable that some women from China came over to look for sugar daddy to support their living.But,we should not stigmatise all China women just because of some bad apples which abuse the system.